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  • Writer's pictureJamee Leichtle

The Transformative Power of Embracing Self-Compassion

Updated: Oct 21, 2023


How to practice self-love and self-care

In a world that often emphasizes external validation, image, and achievement, it's easy to neglect one of the most vital forms of self-care: self-compassion.


Self-compassion, a term developed by psychologist Dr. Kristin Neff, is a multifaceted practice that involves treating oneself with kindness, forgiveness, care, and understanding while simultaneously acknowledging one's imperfections and shortcomings.


Recognizing our humanness and gently accepting the universal truth that we are not alone in our suffering is an essential aspect of self-compassion. Instead of meeting ourselves with harsh self-criticism and giving power to our inner critic, self-compassion invites us to embrace our flaws, celebrate our individuality, acknowledge the difficulties we've overcome, and observe our lived experiences through a compassionate and non-judgmental lens.


How to Practice Self-Compassion


Mindfulness practices for Self-Compassion

Mindfulness Practices:


Give yourself time and space to acknowledge and welcome emotional pain without fear and judgment. Courageously allow yourself to get intimate with what hurts. This can help foster self-awareness, healing, and growth.



Compassionate Self-Talk:


Kindly speak words of endearment and empowerment to yourself as regularly as needed. Learn to talk to yourself with the same compassion and understanding that you would with a loved one. Implement daily self-affirmations that are nurturing to help strengthen your constantly evolving self-compassion muscle.


Self-Compassion Exercises:


Tune into your emotional, mental, and physical being, and honor what is needed. Staying hydrated, limiting screen time, not engaging in emotionally draining interactions, and taking a break from responsibility are some examples of self-compassionate practices promoting rest and replenishment.



Acts of kindness:


Give unconditional love and care to yourself through acts of kindness. You can take a long shower, light your favorite candle, genuinely apologize to someone you have hurt, set a necessary boundary, etc. These are just a few examples of many to show unwavering kindness to yourself – because you are worthy of it.



Practicing self-compassion is like offering yourself a large, refreshing cup of comfort, support, and understanding. It is the foundation for a healthier and more fulfilling life.



Benefits of Self-Compassion


Improved Mental Health:


Active, intentional engagement in self-compassion practices can create a more supportive, less judgmental internal dialogue, resulting in decreased levels of depression, anxiety, and stress.


Enhanced Resilience:


Individuals who practice self-compassion are often better prepared to cope with intense emotions, stressors, challenges, and setbacks. It can help regulate big emotions effectively and manage harmful thinking.


Self-Compassion improves mental health, resilience, relationships, and motivation.

Better Relationships:


The more we practice self-compassion, the more we can extend that compassion to those around us, leading to healthier, more authentic, and nurturing connections.



Increased Motivation:


Individuals who practice self-compassion are less likely to be paralyzed by fear or self-criticism and are more likely to set and achieve goals.


As you embark on the journey of self-compassion, a gentle reminder to yourself that you deserve the same love that you readily offer others can inspire profound healing, hope, and positive change.

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