FAMILY COUNSELING
Hope After Hurt: Restoring Love and Trust in Your Relationship
You remember the way things used to be — when everything felt easier, more connected, and full of possibility. But now, it feels like there’s distance between you and the person you care about. No matter how much you try, something just isn’t clicking the way it used to. The love and communication that once came naturally now feel strained, and it seems like there’s always some invisible barrier keeping you from truly connecting.
You find yourself asking, “How did we get here?” The little things that used to bring you closer now feel like points of tension. Arguments happen more often, or sometimes, there’s silence that’s just as painful as any fight. Maybe you’re not even sure what’s wrong anymore, but it feels like there’s this constant undercurrent of frustration or sadness that you can’t shake.
You’ve tried everything — talking, avoiding, compromising — but nothing seems to make things feel right. You’re stuck in a cycle that’s hard to break. You want things to improve, but you’re not sure where to start. You feel lost, disconnected, and unsure about what to do next.
And deep down, you wonder if things can ever go back to the way they were, or if this is just how it’s always going to be.
You don’t have to settle for being stuck
At RFC Counseling in Colorado, we understand that relationships are complicated, and they don’t always stay smooth. Every relationship has its ups and downs, but when it feels like you're stuck in a negative cycle, it's hard to know how to move forward. We’re here to help you rebuild and reconnect — whether you're facing communication breakdowns, trust issues, growing apart, or just feeling unsure of where things stand. Our work together will help you gain a deeper understanding of what’s going on in your relationship, and why things aren’t flowing the way they used to. You don’t have to just “survive” your relationship or settle for feeling disconnected. We’ll help you and your partner (or just you, if that’s where you’re at) understand the root of the issues and find healthy ways to rebuild trust, strengthen communication, and rekindle the connection you’re craving. It’s not about changing who you are or pretending things are perfect; it’s about creating a path forward that feels authentic to both of you.
You deserve a relationship that feels fulfilling again
At RFC Counseling, we’ll support you as you work through the challenges in your relationship. Whether you're looking to heal, reconnect, or make the tough decisions about your next steps, we’re here to help guide you with compassion and understanding. Let’s work together to create a relationship that feels truly fulfilling, whether it’s about rekindling what you’ve lost or finding peace with where you are.
How We Can Help
Our couples counseling services are designed to address a wide range of issues, including but not limited to:
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How do I get started?Click the CONTACT button located on the upper right corner of the page to submit your contact information, or directly contact us at 408-658-6291 or email us at info@rfccw.com. We will reach out to you within 24 hours!
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How does counseling work?We are currently offering virtual appointments only until further notice. We utilize secure video conferencing to enable face-to-face conversations. The video call is secure and confidential. When you schedule an appointment, you will be sent an email with a secure link enabling you to connect by video at the time of your appointment.
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How often will we meet?Generally, counseling sessions are held on a weekly basis as we begin to collaborate on goals, build rapport and gain momentum. As we progress, we may readjust our scheduled meetings to biweekly, once a month, etc. Some goals may take a few weeks to complete, while others may take several weeks, or months to resolve.
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How long will I be in counseling?Counseling is a personal investment, and for many, it is the most important investment one can make. Since counseling is an ongoing process, commitment length depends largely on the severity of issues and the goals we create together. We are devoted to clients’ therapeutic process and will diligently assess and monitor client progress throughout our journey together.
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What happens if I miss an appointment?A 24-hour notice is required to cancel and/or reschedule an appointment. If you do not show for your scheduled appointment and you have not notified us at least 24 hours in advance, you will be required to pay the full cost of the session.
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Do you accept insurance?We are an out-of-network provider, which means we do not take insurance. We can provide a superbill at the end of each month that you can submit for reimbursement. We highly encourage you to speak directly to your insurance provider to inquire about reimbursement options.
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What is the overall cost for counseling?Under law, health care providers (including professional counselors) are required to provide a Good Faith Estimate, explaining the anticipated overall costs for health care services. You may ask your health care provider for a Good Faith Estimate prior to scheduling a service. For more information, please visit cms.org.
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Is counseling confidential?Yes. Confidentiality of all client information is protected by law. However, there are some limits to confidentiality when the safety of the client/others is compromised. We can provide you with the details of these exceptions during the initial counseling session.
Our Therapeutic Frameworks
We utilize a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches to meet your unique needs
Strengthen and Harmonize Your Family
Is your family facing difficulties in harmonizing? Are lingering wounds and conflicts holding you back? Do unhealthy family dynamics hinder the closeness you long for?
Family therapy tackles the distinct challenges and obstacles hindering your family's unity and functionality. Through family sessions, you can gain invaluable insights into family roles and dynamics, while also crafting fresh strategies to enhance communication and overall cohesiveness. In this safe space, you can foster stronger bonds among family members, cultivating greater compassion, understanding, and acceptance of one another.
How We Can Help
Our family counseling services are designed to address a wide range of issues, including but not limited to:
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Behavioral Concerns
Challenging behaviors can create tension within the family. We work together to identify underlying causes and develop positive, practical strategies to manage and improve behavior in a supportive environment.
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Boundary Setting
Healthy boundaries are essential for fostering respect and balance in family relationships. We help you establish and maintain these boundaries, creating a safe and nurturing home dynamic.
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Communication Challenges
Miscommunication can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. We help families enhance their communication skills, fostering empathy, understanding, and more meaningful connections.
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Conflicts and Arguments
Disagreements are natural but can become destructive without the right tools. Learn effective conflict resolution techniques to address disputes constructively and strengthen family bonds.
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Changes in the Family Unit
Life transitions, such as divorce, remarriage, or the addition of a family member, can disrupt stability. We guide families through these changes, helping you adjust and maintain harmony.
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Emotional Wounds
Past emotional hurts can strain family dynamics. We create a safe space to address and heal these wounds, fostering forgiveness, resilience, and renewed trust within the family.
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Grief & Loss
Loss impacts every family member differently, creating a complex web of emotions. We provide compassionate support to help your family process grief, honor your loss, and move forward together.Support the family in coping with and processing grief and loss.
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Substance Use
Substance use can profoundly affect family dynamics. We help families address these issues collaboratively, focusing on understanding, support, and creating a healthier home environment.
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Stressful Life Events
Big life changes—like relocating, financial hardship, or job loss—can amplify family stress. We teach you collaborative strategies to manage stress and maintain a sense of unity and support.
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Trauma
Trauma affects every family member differently, but it can ripple across relationships. We use a trauma-informed approach to help families process and heal, fostering a sense of safety and connection.
Our Therapeutic Approaches
We utilize a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches to meet your family's unique needs
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Trauma-informed
